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WOMEN’S BASIC NEEDS
Men sometimes think that women have the same needs as them. However, it is quite different. These are the basic needs of women.
Satisfying emotional needs
A woman needs to create a bond with a man in order to be able to share his intimacy and his feelings. Thus, the physical does not have a crucial importance, it is rather the goodness of the heart which prevails, the affection, the tenderness, the attention. Women need an affectionate man, which includes touch, seduction and sexual intercourse. Hugs, caresses, sweet words are essential.
Communication
Women love it dialogue, need to speak and be listened to. It is therefore important to spend some time alone and to plan projects for the future.
Honesty
Women need to have complete confidence in their partner. They assess if they can give in completely, if their man is honest and transparent.
Financial security
If men seek fertility in women, women need a powerful man who can ensure his survival. Financial security is therefore part of marital needs.
THE’family engagement
Women should feel that their man is totally committed and devoted to their well-being as well as that of their children.
THE BASIC NEEDS OF MEN
Women often think, wrongly, that men have the same needs as they do. Men rely on their wives to meet the following marital needs:
Satisfying sexual needs
In couples therapy, the lack of sex is one of the main complaints made by men. Lack of sex can lead some to have extramarital affairs. Men are generally ready to give up on other women as long as their sexual needs are met by their partner. If for women sexuality is a consequence, for men it is an objective. When a man has sex, it is a concrete and physical way of telling his wife that he loves her. His source of pleasure therefore lies in pleasing his wife, who will abandon herself to him. To spice up your lovemaking, opt for erotic accessories such as massage candles or why not buy a sextoy which will bring spice and naughty games to your relationship!
Have an attractive wife
For many men, physical appearance is very important. Men like to have a woman who is both attractive and bright. A man needs his wife to be attractive both in public and in private, this strengthens his pride, and stimulates his sexuality, because the man is very visual. For that, think about the hard lingerie !
To have peace
Men don’t like to be told what to do and how to do it. So avoid sentences like « you should », « in your place », and rather prefer formulas like « I would », or « I would like », without forgetting to punctuate your sentences by « please my love « . So to keep a man, avoid criticizing him directly, and especially remember to congratulate him.
Valuation
Men need recognition and admiration. This is what encourages him to take responsibility and make a long-term commitment. Ignore the behaviors you dislike, and they will eventually go away, and reward the behaviors you want, your man will be completely devoted to you!
