Pregnancy is a wonderful experience, but it is also filled with a thousand and one changes.
Many couples see their sexuality change and have to adapt to it. Because sexuality during pregnancy is the subject of many questions. Very much even! Indeed, it is almost disturbing to see to what extent myths and preconceived ideas swarm with regard to sexuality during pregnancy. What if we separate the true from the false?
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Sexuality and pregnancy: The oral sex should be avoided during pregnancy
Whether during pregnancy or not, caresses and oral stimulation are very healthy! Truth be told, it can even become an interesting and satisfying alternative for partners when penetration has become less profitable, uncomfortable or simply (in some cases) not recommended by a doctor. The only recommendation: never blow into the vagina as this could cause air embolism. This potentially serious and sometimes fatal condition is a migration of air bubbles into the bloodstream. Air could flow through the vagina to damaged veins in the lining of the uterus and cause the heart to become completely blocked. Although this is rare, it is still important to talk about it because it is not impossible.
Sexuality and pregnancy: During penetration, the penis can hurt the baby
Rest assured, this is wrong! The baby is very well protected by the stiffness of the cervix, the soft uterus and the amniotic fluid. However, (although this is nothing to be alarmed about) penetration can cause « shake » the baby. In fact, she already feels the tremors very well on a daily basis, depending on the rhythm and lifestyle of the mother. However, the jerks during penetration can be similar to those felt when the mother climbs the stairs or during a physical activity. That said, your little one may try to remind you of their presence by wiggling around a bit! Take back the caresses and take it laughing. After all, humor is an ingredient not to be overlooked when it comes to sexuality, especially during pregnancy!
Be careful, your partner’s penis cannot hurt your baby. On the other hand, the use of a rotary vibrator is formally discouraged. You can, however, use a clitoral stimulator which is limited to external stimulation.
Sexuality and pregnancy: Orgasm can trigger childbirth
What is true is that orgasm induces deep muscles and uterus. However, these involuntary and reflex contractions that you experience are not necessarily labor contractions and will not result in childbirth. On the other hand, it is true that in certain situations (bleeding, placental abruption, previous miscarriages, etc.) your doctor comes to prohibit sexual relations. No contraindication? Have fun as you see fit!
Sexual development is very important, and pregnancy does not have to be a long journey through the desert of 9 months without sexuality. On the contrary, have fun playing games and practicing positions that are different from your usual! Also bet on sensuality, caresses and massages. Baby may be lucky enough to feel mom’s state of well-being!
