We all know what the sodomy, but nothing costs to recall a small definition to lay the foundations. The sodomy is therefore defined as « any sexual intercourse involving penetration of the anus, most generally with a penis or any other object such as a anal plug « .
When I started having sex it was not even an option for me to give my partner a blowjob, so you imagine for sodomy !
Then little by little, things evolved. Quite quickly, moreover, for oral sex, much less for sodomy.
Being curious by nature, I started to tell a few of my friends about it. As much to say to you that on the subject the discussions are animated and the opinions very divergent! Some just love it, you could almost say that for her anal sex is obvious! Others are adamant and refuse to practice sodomy (with very varied reasons besides « I’m afraid of being in pain », « it’s dirty », « what? My pussy should be enough for him! »). Finally others are more mixed and I had the feeling that they were waiting for the right time or the right guy (something like « I won’t practice sodomy than with the guy I will love ”).
Of course they all wanted to bring me their precious advice « take your time », « breathe it will pass by itself » (as if I were eating a disgusting dish made by beautiful mom!), « Do it to please her » ( and my pleasure in that ???). In short, in the end I realize that these tips are not useful for adults and that I have to make my choice on my own (yes like a grown-up, I know!). And then in the end, as we say very well, “the tastes and the colors…”. We are all different and if some have the courage to pinch their noses by eating a terrible dish prepared by the beautiful doche, me not!
Okay, before I continue, I will remove the doubt immediately. Yes i tried the sodomy and yes I appreciate it! (It still took me a little while!). But I will come back to this point a little later.
What I am suggesting to you, for the moment, is to talk to you about it, to give you my vision of the matter. Practice the anal sex, OK but how practice sodomy ? In what condition? How to prepare? Should we start with a anal dildo ? And why not learn to how to sodomize ?
Anal sex, the right time to test?
At the risk of disappointing some, there is no particular good time. In reality all intimate moments are good for practicing sodomy. This is a choice you must make on your own. Not a choice to please, to be like the others or even worse, a choice under duress. I have read and heard far too many women tell of dire experiences with sodomy. Often for 2 reasons besides: either the guy took it like a bully and in general it calms down! Either the report is made under pressure or under duress.
The sodomy it is like any other sexual practice: if we are forced for any reason, if we have not made the choice to start, if we do it just to please him, it is almost certain that the we are running to failure!
The best is still to talk about it with your partner during romantic games. Personally that’s how it started for me. During a little game of legs in the air, we shared our fantasies, what I wanted and what he wanted. Of course he took the opportunity to tell me about his wish to try the anal sex with me. He did it so well that it finally became my own fantasy! It was not done in 1 day, but little by little the idea germinated. During my little masturbation sessions, I even tried with a finger at first and then I came to try with a annal plug.
So in the end, the sodomy would it not rather be a question of a good partner?
What do men think about sodomy?
I don’t really have any doubts about the answer to this question. Try to pose there to your male friends and you will see for yourself. In general they love it! Moreover it seems that it is one of the most common fantasies among men. Obviously the question that comes after is obvious: But why so much enthusiasm?
The desire to have his partner: sodomy is still a taboo practice in our modern societies, moreover did you know that it was banned until 2003 in the USA! In short, indeed, the sodomy is still a so-called “taboo” practice even if I don’t really like that word. Suddenly, instinctively, the man seems to be attracted by what he is denied. However, this is not the only reason.
More intense pleasure: during vaginal penetration, our vagina is made to open and accommodate the male penis. In fact, our sex is very flexible, which is not the case with our anus. Suddenly, during the sodomy, Mister’s penis is tighter, which generally ensures faster ejaculation! And personally, I also have the impression of better feeling the sex of my partners.
Anal sex, why is it good?
First of all you should know that the anus is a very ribbed area and is therefore particularly sensitive. This involves taking it easy to practice the anal sex. On the other hand, this increased sensitivity can provide exceptional ecstasy!
Gentlemen, to satisfy your partner, go about it with gentleness and delicacy. Stimulate there and you will see that the results will be much better than if you go strong.
Little trick that I personally love: stimulate the clitoris during sodomy ! Nothing like it to tickle me and make me take off.
I also noticed that during anal penetration with a penis or a anal god, I feel a very pleasant pressure on the walls of my vagina.
Finally, the psychological aspect is not to be underestimated. Some like to feel submissive and suddenly sodomy is a rather interesting practice. Others love to make their boyfriend ejaculate powerfully and quickly … etc
How to practice sodomy?
Concerning myself, I started with moments of masturbation. First by stroking my penis and anus with my fingers. Then quickly I switched to anal plug. If you are using a anal sex toy, remember to lubricate it well, especially if it is the first time that you stimulate your small anus!
The interest of using a plug is to be able to discover the anal pleasure smoothly, at its own pace. I must admit that I enjoy these moments and that I practice diligently J
Let’s be serious, like any intimate relationship, the anal sex requires trust in your partner. I call this the “pact of confidence”. Clearly, you have to be sure that your guy will stop if it bothers you too much. Then, you have to prepare the anus, this is usually done in the heat of the moment via caresses with the fingers, why not the tongue … etc.
This is the time to lubricate the anus well and dilate it gently to prepare it for penetration. Again you can use a anal sex toy.
If you try your hand at sodomy for the first time, do not hesitate on the dose of lubricant.
For my part, I like to control the situation especially at the start. In general I put myself in a doggy style position, I take my partner’s penis in my hand and gently I penetrate myself. Once the anus is well dilated, I start to set the pace by asking it not to force it and I take the opportunity to stroke my clitoris. When I’m ready, I let him do it. This is my way of doing things but maybe you have another to share?
Wash before having anal sex
Yes, the sodomy requires a little preparation beforehand. The ideal is still to buy an enema bulb and even a shower cannula or a hand shower for a deep enema.
Be careful to take a bulb for anal enema whose tip is wider than those used for a vaginal enema.
So, here’s how it works: You have to start by putting very lukewarm water in the pear. You place the tip in your anus (remember to lubricate it before) and you empty the enema bulb. You retain the water and you start again a second time. After that, you go to the bathroom and you drain all the water that’s in you. This step will take you between 5 and 10 minutes maximum. Then you go to the shower and you use your anal shower (also lubricate beforehand) for a deep enema. Be careful not to use too much pressure. You will quickly see that the water that comes out is perfectly clean. Here you are ready for the sodomy !
Well, there I have just exposed the ideal preparation but do not panic if you have not planned your move in advance. You just need to follow a few hygiene rules. If your guy sodomizes you, it’s forbidden to put the kekette back in the vagina if he is not going to clean himself first! The same goes for a anal plug. This is because bacteria from the rectum could contaminate your vaginal flora.
If you use a condom, it is imperative to change it for the same reasons of risk of infections.
There you are, you know everything about the sodomy so have fun, enjoy and do not hesitate to share your experience, your tips or other …
Leila
