We all have fantasies. Unfortunately, out of modesty, lack of confidence or shyness, we do not always manage to reveal them. However, it is better to share your fantasies with your partner, rather than keeping them for solitary pleasure! Because exploring our fantasies is a great way to increase intimacy and add some spice and novelty to your sex life! Here’s how you and your partner can meet each other’s desires.
Fantasies are a blessing as much as a curse. Because for fear of rejection, many men and women do not dare to tell their partner what they really want in the bedroom. Indulging by sharing your fantasies is not easy if the partner is not receptive.
Having a partner ready to indulge their desires and fantasies is an essential element for a fulfilling and fulfilling sexuality. Shutting down your cravings often leads to frustration or discouragement. Here’s how to talk about your fantasies and get your partner to do the same.
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1. Fantasies: Choosing the right time
No need to rent a meeting room to talk about your wishes. However, it is important to choose the right time and to be in an environment conducive to discussion. So give the kids some money to go to the movies, make sure you don’t disturb your partner during his show, in short, organize yourself so that there are no distractions and that nothing and nobody can help you. to bother.
2. Fantasies: Work together
Talking about your desires and fantasies should be fun and exciting. The discussion should in no case turn sour and lead to any argument. This is why it is essential to make a clean sweep of the past, in order to have a constructive dialogue. Value your partner so that he wants to take part in your fantasies, and work together towards a common goal: sexuality without taboos!
3. Fantasies: Refrain from judging
When you talk about sex to your partner, be careful not to pass judgment. Your partner might indeed feel rejected and not confide in you. If you are in a healthy relationship and are dedicated to each other, nothing should influence that love. Sharing your desires will only increase the intimacy of the relationship.
4. Fantasies: Reciprocity
To be in a relationship, you need two. Everything is therefore a question of sharing. The fantasies of one should not therefore dim those of the other. To have a healthy relationship and that the discussion is beneficial to both partners, why not share 2 fantasies each?
If your respective fantasies seem contradictory to you, in the case of a dominated-dominant relationship for example, you will have to work together to take full advantage of your desires. There’s no reason you can’t find common ground! It’s all a matter of reciprocity and will.
5. Fantasies: Take it slow
Do not rush, and avoid letting yourself be overwhelmed by the excitement. Because realizing a sexual fantasy is an important moment. Take your time, watch your partner’s reactions, and enjoy the moment. Because once realized, the fantasy will take another form in your mind and that of your partner. Make sure you are both comfortable and listen to your desires and your body.
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