It is well known that routine, habit and repetition are pitfalls that one must strive to avoid in order to maintain marital happiness.
Surprising your partner is a winning strategy that will ensure your balance and prosperity within your relationship. Any new idea that can enhance your pleasure has the effect of a layer of cement that strengthens the foundations of a relationship.
It is therefore important that the surprise comes to brighten up your duo regularly, but this on condition that you adapt it and accord it to the desires and expectations of your partner. For some the pleasure will be great in front of an erotic spectacle but for others the boredom will prevail, the same goes for an improvised part of legs in the air in a grove which will not always be a source of excitement for your partner.
It is to help you in your choice that I offer you here 20 ideas of sexy surprises to surprise your partner!
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1) Forget the underwear
A great classic but which can be very effective, at home, in the car, during the holidays, in the middle of the street or even with your parents-in-law Make him understand discreetly that you are scantily dressed and this should arouse desire and curiosity in your partner who will find any excuse to talk to you « in private » …
2) A few hours at the hotel
During a walk in your city, and without your partner not suspecting anything, you enter by the door of a hotel and you invite him to follow you… Surprised, he will try to ask you about the goal of your process while you collect the keys to the room, which you will have to pay in advance. The eye eager for new sensations, it will fall under the spell of your naughty initiative …
3) The sext: a naughty treasure hunt
Send him messages in an enigmatic spirit to arouse his curiosity and attach pictures of certain parts of your naked body. Invent a treasure hunt that will stimulate your partner and make him look for you. You will offer him a well-deserved reward …
4) Setting up an erotic atmosphere in the bedroom
Scented candles, neat decoration and silk satin sheets… Give him a shopping list to do and receive him in a naughty outfit, lying on the bed, bathed in the sensual darkness. Ready to satisfy his every desire …
5) Give him a massage
Has your significant other been experiencing a period of heightened stress lately? Offer him the services of a professional masseur at home who will take care of relaxing his tense body, then take over by offering him your skilled hands for a more… intimate massage!
6) A sextoy meeting at home
Organize a sale of sextoys at your place by bringing in an intimate toys consultant who will show you the possibilities of vibrant and naughty products… Enough to spice up your antics and titillate your senses!
As a counselor generally travels only for a minimum of people, you will undoubtedly have to commit to planning a minimum expenditure in advance …
7) Prepare a naughty evening with the theme: erotic board game
Outside it’s cold you have to stay at home, it’s time to think about having a naughty little evening thanks to erotic board games. You can also prepare a pledge evening using small papers that you have prepared beforehand. For playground: a cover installed in the middle of the living room. Don’t forget to bring out your massage oils, your vibrators and some aphrodisiac foods. You are now ready for a hot evening!
8) Introduction to soft BDSM
Take a silk headband to make your partner lose sight. Make up a pretext for him so you can undress him. Have him lie down on the bed before handcuffing him. Now you have all power over your companion. You can now prove to him that the film « 50 shades of gray » was really very soft …
9) Undress!
The strip tease remains a fairly classic practice but you have to know how to do it at the right time. Avoid the time of his favorite show you risk being disappointed. Make sure you have your partner’s undivided attention before you play the music and do your show.
10) oil your body
You are tired of your partner being obsessed with her show. Make your entrance with a bottle of body oil and be completely naked. Pour a little oil in your hand then oil your body sensually and languidly …
11) Limited-use sex tickets
On post-its, write several erotic proposals that would be likely to please your companion and ask him, eyes closed, to draw several small papers. Give him a time limit or he can profit from what he just drew.
12) read erotic novels aloud
Your companion does not pay you enough attention at night. Take a relatively straightforward erotic novel and start reading it aloud when the passages get a little hot.
13) surprise blowjob
The more a fellatio is surprised the more it pleases. Whether in the car, when you’re in traffic, on the plane when everyone is dozing off, at a crowded cinema, in the middle of the forest or in a passing place.
14) use a sex toy in a public place
Put on an outfit that you are comfortable in. Take your vibrator for couples and go for a walk while the gentleman will activate your vibrator you will have fun while walking.
15) Dress up
Gentlemen put on a plumber’s outfit, ladies a bunny outfit and bewitch your partner by inventing erotic scenarios that will be adapted to your outfit. Madam, you have a water leak in your kitchen, call the plumber. Gentlemen, you dream of going on a rabbit hunt, your fantasy is about to be realized.
16) sexy cams
Your partner is at work in his office, overwhelmed by the files to be returned. Find an excuse to ask to make a webcam call to show him the tidying up you have done at home. But very quickly he will realize that you are naked and will point out to you that you have forgotten a small stain on the ground.
17) surprise sex tape
It is a surprise which is not without consequence. You have to trust your partner. If so, it can spice up your antics. Just place a camera facing the bed. You will be able to keep a good memory and the day when you lose your libido you will be able to propose to you watch your sex tape. Remember to warn your partner before filming him… Better to have his agreement rather than risk an argument after your hug.
18) Erotic cabaret night
Whether you go to red Mill or see a play, you can surprise yourself with bringing your partner and if you were worried that in the middle of the evening your partner would be bored don’t forget to bring your couples vibrator to please you .
19) plan a car breakdown
You are in the countryside, no one in sight. Now is the perfect time to fake a car breakdown. You forgot to put gasoline. Ask your other half to go and see in the trunk if there is not a spare canister. Of course your trunk will be filled with naughty objects, massage oil and a big blanket so you can make love in the car or in the meadow nearby …
20) travel
Surprise your other half and book a few days in Marrakech. Reserve the most beautiful of the rooms there so that you can carry out all your wildest antics. Plan romantic and naughty moments, walks, sensual massages. This will allow you to keep very good memories.
To pay attention
To surprise your partner and to prepare a surprise, you have to prepare well in advance for it to be a success. Don’t hesitate to show your partner that you care and that you value them a lot. This complicity will allow you to get closer to you. You will have had good intentions and your partner will notice!
