Slow sex is very famous in the United States. It is about making love in slow motion and making a point of honor to manage the sensations and the caresses, in a progressive way. We are not trying to have an orgasm quickly to move on.
With this practice we take advantage of the trip and we do not try to arrive too quickly at the destination, we seek the discovery of sensations and not the immediate orgasm. In this little article, I will explain to you a little the advantages of this way of making love and what slow sex is in general terms.
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Slow sex: how to practice it?
Slow sex is the art of making love to your partner by paying attention to all the caresses and all the gestures that you share with him. You have to know how to capture each sensation and each caress that the body receives in order to make the desire soar. Slow sex allows you to discover or rediscover the body of the other. Slow sex is taking all your time to make love.
To succeed in making love slowly, you must already be available and especially in a state of zennitude: Turn off the phones, do not make an appointment in a hurry, do not turn on the television, your body must be fully present to experience the thing. You may be a fanatic of the relaxation methods that are used in Yoga or during meditation sessions, well do not hesitate to use them. If you are someone very stressed, prefer listening to background music specially designed for relaxation.
Slow sex: our bodies slowly come closer
You may be in the habit of throwing yourself on top of each other to make wild love, forget all about it, and prefer a slow and sensual massage or a very relaxing bath, this will establish between you and your partner a share of sensuality and relaxation.
To be relaxed, it is better to have a soft and subdued light. Decoration and storage must be done conscientiously so as not to be distracted by the environment. Do you hate making love in total silence? Opt for a little soft background music with nature sounds such as drops of water, birds, the wind … etc
Slow sex: Relearn how to do foreplay
You are used to caressing your partner like this or like that, in that precise place and then there. Forget these habits, and try to look further, after all slow sex is for that. This practice will awaken your senses, make you shiver, do not be afraid to explore the erogenous zones never explored, you will discover very beautiful sensations.
To relax your partner, nothing prevents you from making him a massage with the touch technique or simply by using a massage candle.
Slow sex: weightless
Have you finished exploring your bodies, are your foreplay enough? You can start to make love with slow and wide movements, you will begin to feel the heat, the power of the movements. You can imagine yourself weightless, in space, making love in slow motion.
Let go of any desire for sexual performance, speed or desire for absolute orgasm. Instead, focus on your sensations and the discovery of your anatomy, your body.
Why practice slow sex?
Focus on duration and not having or not having an orgasm, zennitude rather than speed and action. You can let yourself be tempted by this practice, the novelty is always a good point for a couple, you will feel more relaxed afterwards.
Slow sex: full body awareness
Slow sex will allow you to gain the upper hand over your pleasures while discovering new sensations. Pleasure is often mixed in with a couple’s routine, you miss out on a lot of things, you just have to relax and enjoy to feel new things in your body.
Slow sex: in search of his senses
Slow sex is exactly the same as having sex blind or handcuffed, it’s a technique that will strain your senses. The caresses will be increased tenfold, you will feel a heat and a pleasure 10 times stronger than if you had your eyes to see.
Slow sex: suppress performance
You have to put performance aside, I know that in our society, in pornographic films and so on, many people only see performance, but forget all that.
Slow sex will allow you to awaken other senses, and it takes the weight of the performance off you. The gentlemen will finally be able to breathe. This will allow you to take all the pressure off yourself because of the desire to perform.
Slow sex: awaken desire
With slow sex you will discover new sensations, new pleasures which will allow you to awaken your desire. You break the routine of your relationship, and it gives you a new lease of life during your sexual lovemaking.
Slow sex: solving premature ejaculation problems
Slow sex makes it possible to stimulate the man less violently and less directly, which means that the man can better control himself. Especially since, as the performance is put aside, the man feels less pressure and he will be more relaxed in the face of the act, so he will crack less quickly.
Slow sex: a female practice
This practice has been specially designed for us women, because we need at least 20 minutes to reach orgasm, the 7th heaven while a man only needs 10 minutes on average. Slow sex allows you to make love in peace, without rushing, it increases the chances that Madame increases tenfold her pleasure and her enjoyment.
You will understand, slow sex allows you to get back to the pleasures that you had lost because of the routine in the couple, but be careful, this is not a technique to keep for life, it is preferable to have two techniques: slow sex and bestial sex so as not to fall into the routine.
