Do you know the great things about masturbation? In fact, everything! It’s enjoyable, it’s a great way to get to know your and your partner’s body better and there are a thousand and one ways to practice it! So here’s a little guide to masturbation to try today!
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Masturbation Guide: Slowing Down
When you are aroused and you have an erection, you can choose to come very quickly, a little in order to release its tension. Sometimes an ejaculation rapido-presto is all you need and it’s perfect as well! However, other times it can be fun to pay attention to what’s going on in your body. Do you feel this feeling of voluptuousness spreading? Enjoy it! Slow down the pace and when you feel that you are very close to reaching an orgasm, stop and resume until you are no longer able to. Know that for solo pleasures but also in duo, you can take a ejaculation retarder or use a male sextoy.
To learn more about the male masturbation, read our article dedicated to the subject.
Masturbation guide: The reverse grip
Instead of holding your penis with your hand facing you and your fingers wrapped around the penis, rotate your wrist, until your thumb is under your penis and your fingers are resting on the glans. If you are still stroking yourself with your right hand, you can try to do it with your left hand. To experience new sensations, dip your hand in ice water or numb it by sitting on it for a few minutes. You will have the impression that it is another person who is caressing you!
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Masturbation guide: On the window.
Usually, women will stimulate themselves sexually while sitting or lying on their back. If you haven’t already, why not try the experience on your stomach? Slide your hand under your belly to your penis. You can place a pillow under your hips to be more comfortable. Stimulate the labia majora, labia minora, the entrance to the vagina, the clitoris. Feel the blood congealing in your genitals and have fun varying the different types of touch and the speed.
Masturbation guide: Those little neglected areas
Did you know that the skin is the most important sensory organ in terms of surface and weight (2 square meters, or 18% of the body’s volume on average)? Thanks to its 640,000 sensory sensors, the skin is a bit like the outer covering of the brain which bridges the gap between body and mind. In your quest for pleasure, avoid systematically rushing towards the primary erogenous zones (genitals) and allow yourself to see the body as a whole and as an object of self-knowledge. Pay special attention to your nipples, the curves of your breasts, the inside of your thighs, etc. Find out what’s nice and what isn’t.
For more information, read our full guide to masturbation
Remember that solo masturbation can also be done using a naughty object or two for simultaneous sensations to help him from one double dong.
