In the West, male masturbation has long been singled out because it was an act to which it was not good to succumb.
Male masturbation was believed to be bad for your health because doctors believed it made you deaf, silly, epileptic and sick. Admittedly today, male masturbation has not yet become commonplace, but medicine quickly realized that this practice made neither mad nor psychopathic, since it even brings a certain well-being to the person who has it. practice.
At the time, men were invited to use their intimate apparatus only to urinate or reproduce, in order to preserve their mental health. Habits have since changed a lot, in fact we are even developing « solutions » to improve the experience of intimate pleasures.
Gentlemen, are you aware of how lucky you are to live in our time. I will give you some tips to achieve ecstasy!
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Why male masturbation?
- First for the pleasure of the eroticism and the caress that leads to the final orgasm.
- By physical necessity because man can feel the need.
- For personal relaxation, to combat the effects of stress. It is a proven fact, orgasm leads to the release of endorphin, a pleasure hormone that soothes!
- For educational purposes, to get to know your own body better and therefore better understand the pleasure of a duo, but also the endurance that you can demonstrate (control of ejaculation)
- Scientific studies prove that men who resort to masturbation are less likely to develop prostate cancer.
- To fight against insomnia.
- To fight against migraine, pleasure relieves pain.
Visual stimulation is important during male masturbation
Unlike women, men often use images to heighten their excitement. Whether it’s a pornographic film, erotic photos or just a good, overflowing imagination. During masturbation, men need to be stimulated in order to reach orgasm. That’s why, ladies, when you take the lead you have to be enthusiastic.
The stages of male masturbation
Masturbation in men is easier than in women since the gentleman simply needs to grab his penis by moving back and forth fast enough to simulate the act of penetration in order to achieve orgasm and pleasure discount. However, there are several other methods to experience other pleasures:
- In order to get good stimulation, you can caress yourself through your underwear or simply rub on a cushion or any other object to slowly arouse yourself.
- If you want to stimulate your erogenous zones at the same time, you can stroke your inner thighs, neck and lower abdomen with your free hand.
- In order to increase your sensations, you can also massage your anus.
- If you want to train for your future romantic debates, you can hold back your ejaculation with a little pressure at the base of your penis. This will help to lower the pressure. This is how, in particular, you will learn to better control your ejaculations and that you will make the pleasure with your partner last.
- To better understand your anatomy and discover new sensations, focus on the speed and pressure exerted on your penis.
Male masturbation aids
- In general, for men the masturbators are in the form of eggs made of silicone. The material is stretchy, just insert your penis into the egg to feel like you’re in a vagina.
- The vibrating rings are used in particular for couples but can also be used during your solitary masturbations. This will allow you to vary the pleasures. Normally used to spice up intercourse, they can also be effective accessories for male masturbation
- For more comfort and a feeling of humidity, you can use an intimate water-based lubricant which will offer you more comfort and will also allow you to get closer to vaginal sensations.
- Depending on your means you can invest in an inflatable doll which I admit will be more or less successful and realistic depending on the budget spent.
- Finally, for more realistic sensations, you can also go on a Fleshlight masturbator. This American brand has created a range of realistic sex toys that perfectly imitate a woman’s vagina, anus or mouth. There are also some for gays, we no longer speak of Fleshlight but of Fleshjack.
Masturbating as a couple
Many men are more against masturbation as a couple, others are in favor but in general they will all say that it is a practice rather reserved for solitary pleasure … I am speaking to the ladies, let yourself be guided by the following advice :
- It is necessary, of course, to put speed but it is not at all necessary to rush. Too slow is boredom too fast is synonymous with injury. Ask your partner if the method is right for them.
- Once you’ve found the right speed, you still need to know how to vary to give rhythm and surprise your partner.
- Endurance is the key word. You have a cramp, it does not matter do not stop otherwise you will stop the pleasure of sir. Take it as a good opportunity to tighten your wrist and a good weight training exercise.
- As I told you above, a man needs to be visually stimulated. While you masturbate him you can also touch yourself by looking at him in a naughty way.
- You surely know the tastes of the gentleman so you can vary the pleasures, with a lick on the glans, with the caress of the brake, increase his pleasure. And you never know, don’t forget that there is prostate massage.
Masturbation of the anus
This practice is taboo because it remains quite rare and associated with homosexuality. Men also lack knowledge about this practice. This type of male masturbation is used to discover the pleasures of prostate stimulation. You can find them out by asking Madam to insert a « clean » and lubricated finger to stimulate you or you try the use of an anal plug.
The prostate is located 7 cm after the anus, and it is present on the front wall on the belly side. It is a small spongy ball …
If you stroke this little ball your man will finally experience spectacular orgasms like he has never experienced!
There is no harm in masturbating
Masturbating remains a taboo act even though a large number of men practice masturbation on a daily basis. Certain beliefs continue to persist, it seems that men who masturbate have a greater chance of becoming precocious and helpless ejaculators. More realistically, medicine admits that male masturbation brings a certain well-being and that it should be practiced. To learn more on the subject, you can read our article on the benefits of masturbation.
I will end with a woody allen quote :
« Don’t speak badly about masturbation, it’s the safest way to have sex with someone you love »
