It is not a revelation; a couple that is worked and that is maintained on a daily basis. The couple’s enemies are numerous and fierce! Indeed, in the top 10 (not exhaustive!) Of the real love Kills unequivocal seat, the carelessness. But what exactly does it mean to « let go »?
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Letting it go doesn’t have to be physical
After a certain time together, when the moment when the irrational passion that reigned fades, the couple very often faces the threat of habit and the dangers of everyday life. When we hear about carelessness in a romantic relationship, we often talk about actions or behaviors that refer to one or more physical “negligence”. We point the finger at those couples who go to the bathroom and leave the door open, to socks that slip sneakily under the duvet, to soft clothes that take control of the wardrobe, to little love handles that appear… but, beware! This attitude is not limited to the physical! Honestly, it’s not what is more « harmful » in a relationship, than not necessarily showing yourself in your best light!
Leaving it is psychological above all
In fact, many couples face a certain psychological let-go, something that is much less talked about. Each partner confines himself to his little routine. The inattention towards his or her partner becomes more and more significant and the non-recognition is almost palpable. The other sometimes becomes a bit like a roommate and this bond in which you were immersed in the beginnings, slowly disappears. This relaxation can have multiple consequences; the marks of attention and love tend to become scarce, seduction approaches the neutral point and boredom is on your tail. Sportswear suddenly seems a lot less threatening, doesn’t it?
From the moment one behaves as if one had acquired the other, the honeymoon is eclipsed by a real power struggle. That said, avoiding falling into carelessness therefore helps foster seduction between partners. It is a fuel that allows you to last long! By letting this feeling live, you allow yourself a framework where it becomes easier and above all, fun to charm the other, whether it is with your physique or your personality. In short, you give yourself the opportunity to rise in love on a daily basis.
Taking care of yourself is taking care of the other and it is also taking care of your couple … To rekindle the flame, think of erotic lingerie, to create an atmosphere with candles or to integrate sextoys for couples to your sexuality!
