In recent years, making your own sex tape has become a real fashion phenomenon. This phenomenon has even propelled illustrious strangers to the rank of world star.
To cite just a few examples, we can mention Kim Kardashian and singer Ray-J who made their sex tape in 2006 or Paris Hilton who made one in 2004 with her boy friend at the time. In short, you will understand, the sex-tape is a way to touch the celebrity so tempted that one accepts to see his lovemaking broadcast on the web.
What always questions me is that these same pseudos starlets are still screaming at death by asserting that they are not at the origin of the dissemination of their sex-tapes and yet happily reap the media coverage. Far be it from me to make false accusations, but all the same, the question deserves reflection.
However, the object of my article is not to make a criticism of this Hollywood approach but rather to give you some advice to make your own sex-tape and to spice up your life as a couple. It should be noted that according to a study carried out by IFOP, 11% of people under 25 have already filmed themselves having sex.
First of all, I want to point out that filming yourself having sex requires some precautions so that the video does not land on sites that are not recommended or recommendable!
Come on, I’ll give you some tips to be the king of the home-made short film, tight budget but you will be the main character of the film! ACTION!
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Good reasons to make a sex tape
Spice up your married life : the majority of couples want to spice up their married life. Bringing originality under the duvet is certainly one of the best ways not to fall into the Sunday hug routine. A sex tape responds to his desire for novelty. It allows you to play a role, to imagine a scenario but also to surpass yourself and give the best of yourself in front of the camera.
Keep a memory of your antics : it’s always nice to watch the good old family movies where we find parents, grandparents, children … etc. But finally, why not keep, also, in memory some good naughty moments spent with playing partner. Nothing prevents you from replaying the film of your antics a few months later or even a few years later. No doubt it will rekindle the flame between you and come spice up your married life
Satisfy your fantasies : nothing prevents you from scripting your sex-tape. You can imagine a setting, costumes, use sex toys or even immortalize a BDSM session. The goal is to give free rein to your imagination and above all to have fun. Making a sex tape shouldn’t be a constraint but a pleasure. No need to take yourself seriously and play the great director. You just need to be able to make your fantasies come true and keep them as a memory.
How to make a good sex tape?
Equipment : let’s keep it simple. No need to have professional equipment. Exit, the big camera, the light spots or the boom for the sound. Use the material you have, but also think about the quality. If you don’t have a small camera, you’ll need to buy one, rent one, or just borrow it from someone you know. In addition, a smartphone will do the job perfectly and will be easily manageable. On the other hand, forget the webcam, the quality is more than average and the rendering just disappointing. Keep in mind that your sex-tape will be a memory of your naughty moments so don’t spoil everything by using your webcam …
Techniques for filming : Forget the still shot, your video will be without interest and above all you risk not seeing much and spoiling the best moments of the show. The best is to use the technique of porn movies. Take your camera or phone in your hand and experience the action up close. The idea is that you relive the scene when you watch your sex tape. In addition with this point of view technique, nothing prevents you from passing the camera, widening the shot … etc
Build a scenario : Well for once the fewer scenarios there will be, the more pleasant and natural the film will be to watch. No need to write endless dialogues à la Romeo et Juliette, nor speeches à la Vandamne, keep it simple. Don’t style your video, that’s not the point, the point is your enjoyment, just focus on that. If the goal is to watch this scene for your foreplay, avoid turning it into a comic scene …
Accessories to spice up the scene : Put your accessories next to you before you start filming. Avoid, once the preliminaries started, to stop everything to run to the other end of the house to look for the handcuffs, or other sextoys that you would have forgotten to put away.
You also have to create an atmosphere. If for example the place of your scene must take place in the bathroom, do not hesitate to light a few candles, put a bottle of champagne nearby, etc.
Make use of a external vibrator this will spice up the start of your film a little, which will not be very original with classic foreplay.
Which positions to choose? Do not experiment with new positions during the first sex tape, or attempt acrobatics worthy of the Olympics. We forget the positions that are too complicated or those that you do not master.
Be zen : Do not worry about the camera filming you, it may get stuck. The most important thing is your pleasure and that of your partner. You can always delete the scene once it is shot.
Some tips before making your sex tape
Do not improvise: Making a sex tape cannot be improvised. If you want to make a success of your film, it is better to prepare for it. Nothing prevents you from defining some shooting rules or testing positions before making your film. It would be a shame to have to restart the video several times at the risk of knocking down this intimate moment with your partner.
Do not make a sex tape without telling your partner : Forget the element of surprise. If you want to avoid a scandal or even legal action, tell your partner. If you have his agreement then take advantage and turn yourself into an amateur film director.
Take precautions : You must keep the original file and do not keep it in your phone or computer. A DVD or a USB key will be more suitable in order to keep your antics in complete safety. This will prevent your sex tape from falling into the wrong hands. Unfortunately file piracy is not a legend, nor phone theft! Don’t be paranoid either, but it is best to put your sex tape in a safe place.
To broadcast your sex tape: If you want to broadcast your sex tape on the net, avoid filming your faces during this scene. The quality of the video will be lower but you will avoid having regrets when your parents or colleagues come across it. On the net, when you try to delete the video it will have already been broadcast, it will be too late so think twice.
Action it turns
If you have the agreement of your partner and you want to get started then go ahead. Making a sex tape requires a little preparation but if you follow these few tips the results will be there!
