Ladies, the clitoris is an organ whose sole purpose is to give you pleasure, so why leave it abandoned if nature has given it to you ?!
The clitoris has 8000 nerve endings, we can call it a nerve ball (for comparison, the tip of the index only contains 3000 nerve endings, that’s to say …). With it you are sure to reach orgasm in record time. However, you need to know a few methods and tips so that it reveals all its abilities to you.
In order to achieve orgasmic ecstasy that will take your breath away, whether you are looking for ecstasy as a couple, or alone, if you want to moan like you’ve never moaned, today I am giving you some methods and tips to stimulate the clitoris.
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Advice before stimulating the clitoris
It’s all well and good to want to go as quickly as possible to stimulate the clitoris, but first you have to know where it is. Points such as “the g-spot” and the “deep spot” are much more complicated to stimulate than the clitoris. The clitoris is located outside the vagina, above the vaginal opening. You just need to find a small ball of 0.5 to 1 cm, you will see it swell when you experience pleasure, because the rest of the time your clitoris remains hidden warm under its protective envelope « the hood ».
Gentlemen, you have to be patient, do not throw yourself on the clitoris of your companions. You have to go through the preliminaries, it will be all the better for the rest of the celebrations. The more aroused your partner, the more sensitive the clitoris will be to touch.
You can opt for languid kisses or caresses in the erogenous zones. Raise the sexual tension, start naughty staring games throughout your candlelit dinner. Increase the pressure to its maximum before stimulating the clitoris.
During the foreplay, you can take care of the clitoris itself, do not forget that it has 8000 nerve endings, so gentlemen be delicate, no need to go in force, the clitoris is a sensitive area . Stimulating it can be a lot of pleasure, but if you do it wrong it can be painful as well.
Methods to stimulate the clitoris
Manually
Wet your finger with saliva, or with vaginal secretion if you do not suffer from vaginal dryness. You can also opt for an intimate lubricant for more softness during the touch. Then make light circular movements around your clitoris, you can touch it from time to time to build up the pressure. Avoid rapid and rough gestures, if your companion wishes to take charge of the stimulation, tell him to stay tuned to your sensations, so that he adapts.
The shower head
Whether you are alone or in a relationship, do not hesitate to use the shower head to stimulate the clitoris. It remains the accessory that everyone has at home, and it is incredibly effective thanks to its powerful jet and hot water. Regulate the pressure, the temperature to avoid any accident, and have fun stimulating the clitoris. If you have your companion on hand, you can ask him to manage the water jet by spraying your thighs, stomach, but not the sexual area, you have to know how to be patient and make the desire rise, he can then once the tension at its height take care of your clitoris.
The clitoral massager
In order to climb to 7th heaven, nothing equals a clitoral massager. There are many models that will help you achieve orgasm easily. You can manage the vibrations of the device, in order to target the area to be stimulated and you can choose a sex toy with a pleasant surface to the touch. If you want to play on your sensations and increase your desire, you can start by using your massager through your underwear before removing them quickly once the pleasure is there.
Language
Cunnilingus remains a great classic to stimulate the clitoris. It is appreciated by many women. Thanks to the wet caress of the tongue and the variable pressure, the pleasure climbs quite easily. Do not be afraid of this learned name and try this practice together. Yes I doubt you are flexible enough to do it on your own: D.
The principle of cunnilingus is to slide the tongue along the vulva, gently touching the clitoris and its periphery, you have to take your time. Gentlemen, listen to your companions and observe their reactions. If, ladies, you are single, nothing better than acquiring a cunnilingus simulator, you will be able to enjoy alone the joys of cunnilingus without a partner.
Gentlemen, some women do not like cuni so no need to insist if you feel that it is not her thing! And yes, we are all different and that’s what makes our charm ?
The other accessories
You are a romantic person, or you love scenarios, employer and maid, why not opt for a feather duster that gently stimulates the clitoris. You can also opt for soft bdsm accessories such as a small whip with soft straps that will awaken your clitoral pleasure. But be careful, in this practice the softness must be there, because I remind you that the clitoris is a very sensitive organ.
The positions of the kama sutra
Many positions of the Kâma-Sutra allow to stimulate the clitoris, but if you want to have an optimal stimulation it is necessary to opt for positions where the woman turns her back to the man. For example the doggy style or the emu are positions which offer the possibility to the man to caress the clitoris with his fingers while he performs back and forth to penetrate his partner.
If you prefer to watch your partner during your lovemaking, you can opt for the missionary. Slip a pillow under your partner’s back to have a better arch and allow the penis to come and stimulate the clitoris. Gentlemen, you can also use your glans to stroke Madame’s clitoris before proceeding to penetration.
The sex toy for couples
You can purchase a vibrating ring or a couples massager to stimulate Madam’s clitoris, and give her the most pleasure. Madame will be able to enjoy the sensations of the act but also the vibrations that will wake up her clitoral area.
Orgasm several ways to get there
The clitoris is a very small but very sensitive organ and therefore full of surprises. Women are generally more sensitive to clitoral stimulation than to vaginal stimulation. Moreover, it is proven that everything orgasm starting point requires stimulating the clitoris beforehand. However, not all women are the same, so there are several ways to achieve orgasm. This is why if you are a man you must pay attention to the reactions of your partner, in order to know what makes her happy (a passage of the tongue on a specific place, a special fingering, the act and the stimulation. at the same time, a little boost). In short, here you have some food for thought, it’s up to you to do the rest!
