Have you ever noticed how hard it is to turn a woman on? Men don’t always realize how certain things can change everything when it comes to female pleasure and desire. Here are some tips to be a good lover and drive a woman crazy with desire and…. pleasure!
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The little touches that make you happy
If a woman is in your bed, it is a priori that you have already spent some time with her outside of sex, and therefore that you know her a minimum. Even if you only spent a few hours in her company, she must have confided in you personal things. Women like to be listened to. This is why, by paying attention to her tastes, her experience, her personality and her fantasies, you will be able to create a sensual atmosphere that will make her melt with desire. It could be a playlist of her favorite singer, a sexy little outfit that will highlight her shapes, a bouquet of her favorite flowers, the transformation of your room into an oriental massage parlor, an unusual place, a god rabbit for double stimulation. In short, it’s up to you to find THE thing she told you about and that will hit the nail on the head! The key is to show her that you are listening carefully to what she is telling you, and that you bend over backwards for her desires and pleasure. Surprising a woman is already half the job! Before touching his body, therefore, remember to touch his heart. Guaranteed effect!
The preliminaries to increase the pleasure
If you often skip foreplay and get straight to serious business, be aware that you may lose points. A woman expects a good lover to gradually raise the excitement to climax. So it starts with kisses, massages, caresses, oral sex, and the creation of an atmosphere conducive to a game of legs in the air. Be unpredictable, and ignite your lover’s imagination. With effective foreplay, you won’t have to worry about the aftermath because she will be so horny. She will beg you to lead her to theOrgasm !
The art of cunnilingus or oral pleasure
If the cunnilingus is « not your thing », you will have to get started. Because it is THE way to make a woman crazy with pleasure. The clitoris given countless nerve endings, you just have to tickle this little button of pleasure and your partner will start to moan. Vary the sensations, and alternate between gentle caresses, sucking and manual stimulation. Oral sex is a two-way street, do not hesitate to invest yourself, you will certainly have a very good return on investment!
Hugs for tender pleasure
Hugs and tenderness are extremely important, both before and after sex. Even if you are very tired after the effort, keep in mind that women like to spend a little time after sex. Take her in your arms, kiss her, look at her, talk to her. In short, take care of her and avoid turning on your side of the bed right after having come.
