Whether you are a man, a woman, in a relationship or single, it can be difficult to choose your first sex toy. Indeed, for several years, the sex toy market has intensified and the multitude of models available can quickly make us lose our minds. In order not to regret your first purchase of a sex toy, there are several questions to ask yourself to be sure to choose THE sex toy that you need.
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sex toy, dildo, geisha balls,…?
You will understand, the first question to ask is to know the type of sex toy that we are looking for. For this, it is important, first of all, to take stock with yourself (or with your other half if the purchase is made for a couple), in order to clearly define your expectations.
Once you have successfully understood your expectations and needs for this sex toy, it is also important to take into account your environment of use. This is all the more true if you orient yourself towards a vibrator for example. Indeed, in this case, you have to think about the noise factor, which could make the use of your sex toy difficult or even impossible if you do not live alone (I / O).
Jelly, silicone, plastic,…?
The great thing about sex toys is that they can be found in many different materials, each with its advantages (and disadvantages). There are many sextoys in jelly, a material that is both rigid and soft, which allows the toys to be declined in very fanciful colors. It is also an inexpensive material, so it would suit people on a tight budget. However, I strongly advise you not to buy jelly sex toys, because this material is not at all healthy for the body. (except rare exceptions where some Jelly products are not harmful as on the arbredesplaisirs.com site)
The ideal would therefore be to opt for a dildo ABS plastic or silicone, provided of course that they do not contain phthalates. Plastic will be less expensive than silicone, but it is also less “glamorous”. On the other hand, although very soft, silicone will tend to attract dust. In addition, there are certain precautions to be taken with a silicone sex toy: they are not compatible with silicone-based lubricants, so you will have to opt for a water-based lubricant only.
Finally, there are also surgical steel sex toys, much more expensive but which allow temperature play and which are ultra-resistant in the long term, glass sex toys, which offer very nice shapes but are very fragile. or even wooden sex toys, which are true works of art. Lately, we have also seen the appearance of ceramic sex toys!
Little tips to finish
Thanks to our experience in the field of sex toys, we were able to make a finding that could have avoided us throwing money down the drain if we had realized it earlier: to have a quality sex toy, it do not hesitate to pay the price.
Indeed, the first price sex toys are often of poor quality. In some cases, they can even be dangerous for the body. Plus, they might just let go of you in no time. And who says defective sex toy, says new purchase of sex toy. It is therefore better to have a slightly higher budget from the first purchase, in order to avoid buying a bad sex toy that we will regret and which will force us to once again put our hands in the wallet.
Finally, be aware that the Internet is full of sites and devs dedicated to consumer reviews of sex toys. Reading these kinds of reviews or tests can give you a better idea of the pros and cons of each sex toy. The ideal is to cross the information a little and multiply the number of opinions, because each person has their own feelings, and the opinions may vary slightly from one person to another.
