We have a lot of erogenous zones that are awake when we start to stroke them, unfortunately out of habit we always decide to explore the same corners of our partner’s body, starting with the torso ending at the toes without forgetting the stimulation of the point G for ladies and prostate for men.
You will surely learn it, but we women have a rather deep and distant zone which turns out to be much less known, but it is gradually starting to move out of its comfort zone and that’s good for the sake of it. Mrs !
So what is the name of this unknown area? The English nicknamed it « Deep Spot » in French it means « Deep Point », science has nicknamed it « Cervical cavity ».
Where is this small area hiding? How do I find it? What does it make us feel? Come on I will help you ladies and gentlemen and share my knowledge with you.
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The Quésako “deep spot”?
The deep spot area is in fact made up of two points that will make you feel pleasure. These points are found towards the back of the vagina and just before the cervix.
- At the level of the upper wall of the vagina at about 7 cm you will find the » front spot », Which will make madame climb the curtains.
- At the level of the lower wall of the vagina at about 9 cm you will find the » back spot », Which will make Madam climb, but this time up to the heavens!
The deep spot is exactly like the point G, it is a rather small area with a lot of nerve endings which makes the area very sensitive to caresses and touch.
The best way to find this area, this point, is still to use your index or middle finger to conquer this point, but try to have your fingers very clean, hygiene above all.
If Madame prefers to know the pleasures of the forehead spot she will have to be on her stomach, if on the other hand she prefers to know the pleasures of the back spot she will have to be on her back.
Gentlemen, when your middle finger has passed a rather rough area with streaks, you will arrive at a very smooth area, do not move! You are in the right place.
Stimulation of the « deep spot »? How to do ?
It is important to be well excited beforehand
To be able to wake up this small area at the bottom of your vagina, you have to ask the gentleman for rather long and languid foreplay. It is best to explore this area when you are very horny and hot as coals. This exploration is quite deep, so you have to put all your trust in your man and be very envious of him, in order to feel all the pleasures that you should feel.
Make love to be stimulated
The deep spot is a rather deep point in the vagina and has a hollow shape, so stimulating it with the finger is not the easiest thing to do but once stimulated you will feel a great pleasure.
You can try positions that allow your partner to penetrate you in a deeper way in order to stimulate this place here are some examples: The Andromache, The Anvil or the doggy style …
Sex toys to stimulate the deep spot
To wake up the nerve endings in this small area you can buy a sextoy, rather curved in shape. This accessory will allow you to have more chances of reaching the deep spot and therefore ecstasy … even if I do not question the capacities of these gentlemen.
Stimulation of the deep spot with the fingers
Your fingers have several nerve endings as well, which makes it easier to guide you into Madam’s vagina.
Your fingers are malleable which can be very practical for more details, you can also exert some kind of pressure thanks to them.
The front spot
Your partner is lying comfortably on his back, waiting for your fingers to kick in, slide along the top wall of the vagina, your middle finger or index finger. Be delicate and gentle.
When you have gone through the rough area, what did I say above? Yes there you are, a rather smooth area, now don’t move from there so as not to lose the area.
Curl your finger, while pressing lightly on the area. Do this for a few minutes and you will see your partner’s face relax little by little to end with an orgasm.
The back spot
Your partner is lying comfortably on his stomach. You will slide your finger on the lower part of the wall of the vagina, be careful to be even more delicate than for the forehead spot.
Orgasms emanating from the back spot area are known to be extremely strong, so the area is much more sensitive. Stimulation of the back spot can be very unpleasant for some women, so try to listen.
This sensitivity is due to the proximity of the rectum. The woman can feel like a kind of penetration at the anal level which can displease her and even surprise her.
Tell your wife that this sensation is only fleeting, and that the pleasure she will feel afterwards will quickly make her forget her miseries.
Do not force her, if she is tense there will be no positive results anyway, you have to have full confidence and envy in your partner.
In terms of gestures, it is the same as for the forehead spot, you curl your finger and exert a little more intense pressure than for the forehead spot in order to bring Madame towards absolute pleasure.
The two
You can choose to stimulate both points of the deep spot simultaneously. But it takes your partner to be extremely excited to be able to stimulate the two points. You will slide your middle finger and your index finger into the vagina of your partner who will herself be lying on her back.
Gently spread your fingers, when you have reached the smooth area, start by massaging simultaneously up and down.
What are the advantages of going in search of the deep spot?
- To find complicity in the couple: Even if you do not have the expected orgasm, the fact of seeking the deep spot together is a good way to vary the sexual pleasures.
- Have the most intense orgasm. This according to the testimonies of many women.
- The quest and the stimulation of the deep spot, according to the experts in sexuality, tighten to overcome the feminine frigidity and allows the women who have never had orgasms to know one, very intense.
Look for the deep spot to have fun
The pleasures are sometimes unfair, as some women will have a pleasure and a breathtaking orgasm just by stimulating the deep spot and others will feel absolutely nothing.
Orgasm is not an end in itself. Some women who have never experienced orgasm are very happy and sexually fulfilled.
Even if you do not achieve your goals, the fact of having sought this point together will have brought you closer to your companion, this complicity will allow your antics to be more intense.
Go now you can go in search of this famous deep spot, all in depth gently and above all without pressure …
If you want to know more about the deep spot, here is a cool site: http://magazineromance.ca/2012/11/19/8-types-dorgasmes-feminins/
