Pleasure and relaxation are some of the virtues of female masturbation, which aims at clitoral stimulation.
Many women feel guilty or ashamed about masturbating. This usually comes from our upbringing, which plays a key role in our sexuality. Some parents forbid their children to touch their sex, which can cause a blockage. What a pity, because masturbation has only benefits! Numerous studies show that women who practice masturbation have much more active and fulfilling sex lives. Most women reach orgasm through masturbation, so for those who still don’t dare… go ahead! The pleasure is at the rendezvous.
Masturbation is the best way to discover your own body: the clitoris, the G-spot and the other erogenous zones. Once you learn to guide yourself to orgasm, it will be much easier to guide your partner towards achieving a better sex life.
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For female masturbation experts: play with your fingers
With your legs open while sitting or lying down, you need to insert your fingers. Start by exploring your vulva with caresses. Open your labia majora and labia minora to uncover your clitoris, and use your finger to stroke and play with this little pleasure button, forward and backward, up and down, making circular motions if you are at it. sensitive. Determine which movement makes you feel the most pleasure, and hold it until orgasm.
For the more shy: use an object
The vagina is deep and difficult to reach with the hands. Use your imagination and use objects to stroke and penetrate your vagina to explore the pleasures of masturbation. The easiest way is to get into a supine position and place the object between your legs, making movements to rub the clitoris. Many women tend to use a pillow or bolster to masturbate in this position. Look for the rhythm and pressure that gives you the most sensations.
For the lazy: use a sex toy
Vibrators, vibro, or clitoral stimulators, call them what you want … Whether sitting, lying or squatting, the sex toy is very easy to use and is extremely effective! You can also use a dildo if you don’t want to feel the vibrations. Likewise, for double stimulation you can use a god rabbit and you can even associate vaginal sensations with anal plug.
Sex toys are ideal if you don’t want to exert a lot of effort or if you want to reach an orgasm in 3 minutes. With the help of this erotic object, you will stimulate your clitoris by making it vibrate. Be careful not to become “addicted”, like the girls from “Sex and the City”!
A pleasure alone or shared?
Masturbating when you are alone does not mean that it is compensation for a lack of sex. It is a way of enjoying a moment of pleasure with ourselves, during which anything goes.
And contrary to what you might think, women without partners aren’t the only ones who practice masturbation. For those who want to share this moment of pleasure with their partner, it is a sign of trust and complicity. Giving the pleasure of watching is giving your partner the opportunity to know what we like.
