One of the biggest fears of men is that their partner simulates orgasm during sex. But can men also simulate jouissance? A survey by the University of Quebec in Canada questioned 230 young people between the ages of 18 and 29 on the subject. You will see that the results are very surprising!
Although many find it hard to believe it, men have claimed to have faked orgasm at least once in their lives. The main reason is that they are afraid of hurting their partner and feel pressured to pretend. They try to prevent their partner from suffering so they prefer to pretend rather than admit not having had an orgasm.
But it is not the only reason ! The lack of stimulation also influences, and to this is added the fact that the man can be tired or have stress, which will make it more difficult to achieve orgasm. Remember that an erection is not synonymous withejaculation ! And also that there can be pleasure without there necessarily being enjoyment!
Another reason why men fake orgasm is‘infidelity. Sometimes men lose interest in their partner. Thus, in order not to arouse suspicion, they choose to simulate orgasms.
Specialists have given details to consider in identifying whether or not a man is faking during sex. Here they are :
– excessive talking or moaning
– a erection which is not firm enough
– no trace of fluids
The specialists emphasize that the best thing to do in any case is communication between the partners, in order to try to understand what is wrong.
