We can say that the enjoyment of women remains a big enigma for a lot of our male counterparts. There are many questions surrounding vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm.
The triggering of an orgasm in women is done mainly thanks to the imagination and the psyche but then how it happens physically, where is this famous point G in the woman which triggers this orgasm and which makes the woman reach the 7th Sky. Where is the orgasm trigger positioned? Is it at the level of the vagina, the clitoris, or just the G-spot? Maybe all three combined?
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Vaginal and clitoral orgasm: The scientific reasoning of specialists
Vaginal, clitoral such is the question, this question is moreover as old as the world, or at least since we became interested in women and their pleasure. Scientists say, however, that clitoral and vaginal do not exist.
Many people think that the vagina and the clitoris are both related, the clitoris is considered to be the revealed part of the vagina, it is the starting point of vaginal orgasm or clitoral orgasm.
Sexologists mean that there is only one female clitoral orgasm, and vaginal orgasm is only a variation that occurs because of the roots of the clitoris.
According to scientists, the orgasm is therefore only triggered by the clitoris, there are two ways of doing this and this provides two types of female orgasms: with external stimulation of the clitoris we arrive at a pure clitoral orgasm and hard and by internal excitation of the clitoris one arrives at a vaginal orgasm, thanks to the point G or the root of the clitoris. Women can have a vaginal orgasm, a clitoral orgasm, or both.
Vaginal and clitoral orgasm: We are no further ahead …
In men, orgasm is very easy to trigger and to understand, however, in women it remains a big enigma. Freud said that feminine jouissance was like a black continent, which clearly proves the difficulty of the thing.
In men, it remains simple since their orgasm is triggered by stimulation of the penis, while in women, orgasm can be triggered in several bodily and erogenous zones.
Many women believe that there are also orgasms triggered by breast stimulation.
This is the case with Lola: » When I masturbate, to enjoy I need to stroke my chest simultaneously. I even feel like when only stimulating my chest I could cum. I can say one thing that is certain is that stroking the breasts leads to orgasm more easily, and it only takes a few clitoral back and forth to trigger it. «
Amanda also tells us: “ I assure you that I enjoyed stimulating myself just the chest and besides I was the first surprised! «
Vaginal and clitoral orgasm: Numbers
The clitoris plays a very important role in female enjoyment, more than 2/3 of women experience pleasure by stimulation of their clitoris alone. 80% of women reach orgasm by stimulation of their clitoris and 45% by stimulation made by their partner. 25 to 30% of women are affected by vaginal orgasm. But according to scientists, vaginal orgasm is triggered by internal stimulation of the clitoris and by stimulation of the internal root, which corresponds to point G.
Vaginal and clitoral orgasm: Did you know?
It should not have been pleasant to live in the time of Napoleon since because of the lack of knowledge of female anatomy, Doctor Robert Bourguignon compared the clitoris to a benign tumor. He therefore performed numerous clitoral ablations …
You should also know that Madame Marie Bonaparte, a very good friend of Doctor Freud, was sure that the female orgasm was linked to the distance that there was between the vagina and the clitoris. She also supported her statements with a study of 200 women by measuring the distance there was between the clitoris and the urethral meatus. As for her, Marie Bonaparte, decided to move the clitoris so that it is much better stimulated during the act … without too much evidence as to the results.
Vaginal and clitoral orgasm: On the forums
If you look at women’s forums often you may notice the many topics and debates around female orgasm, vaginal orgasm or clitoral orgasm.
For men we can see that orgasm is a real mystery, but we must not believe, women are as lost as men on the functioning of the orgasm.
Maeva explains that when she masturbates she quickly reaches orgasm, however when she makes love with her husband there is no way to trigger one.
Carina tells us that she has never had an orgasm in doggy style although she is very excited by this position. However, in the missionary position no problem she has orgasms quickly, thanks to the rubbing of the clitoris on her husband’s pubis.
As for Mélina, she can enjoy in different ways, either by clitoral stimulation or by internal stimulation thanks to a vibrator, or by combining the two to have a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral orgasm at the same time.
What are the differences between vaginal orgasm and clitoral clitoral orgasm?
When asked this question of many women, they will tell you that the clitoral orgasm is very strong.
To Samantha, It’s akin to hundreds of clitoral-based tingling microphones: » After only a few minutes of stimulating my clitoris I arrive at a powerful orgasm, however I have more the feeling that it remains an enjoyment rather than an orgasm. I can make myself cum several times in a row, but I’m still unsatisfied. I do not arrive in 7th heaven as they say ”
The vaginal orgasm will be deeper than the clitoral orgasm, but it will have less intensity, it will however be more complete and subtle to feel.
Finally, there is the simultaneous clitoral and vaginal orgasm, it is really the apotheosis as Amandine, 40 years old, a school teacher confirms to us: » My husband bought us a very useful little toy, Vibrating Cockring, to help me reach orgasm, this sex toy stimulates my clitoris during the act. «
Barbara: The clitoris becomes my command of pleasure
Barbara at 28, she is, for her, only clitoral.
She lives with her companion Damien, in Seine and Marne. It’s been barely 3 months since she had a real orgasm during sex.
“Since I was a teenager, I have orgasms, stimulating myself on my own. It was never a problem for me to have an orgasm while stroking myself. I only need a few seconds. «
But Barbara never succeeded in reaching orgasm during her sexual intercourse whether it was with Damien or another man. Neither a vaginal or clitoral orgasm… nothing at all. And yet she tried several methods, caresses, stimulation of the clitoris, penetration. However, thanks to Damien she discovered sextoys, it’s a new way of making love, in a more fun and relaxed way.
She discovered that this little button was really a pleasure command.
“During my first orgasm I was very surprised. It was something unusual for me, I was no longer waiting for orgasm I had lost hope, and yet one day happened by chance. It may simply be a question of trusting the partner, creating a sensual atmosphere and a bond to all tests ”.
Barbara now manages to cum with Damien, but there are still specific positions to respect to achieve clitoral orgasm such as the missionary position. Doggy style is not suitable because the woman needs the clitoral rubbing against the man’s pubis. Or you have to try to get down to rabbit sextoy.
Véronique: clitoral, vaginal woman… but not only!
On this theme, Véronique will bring us her precious advice:
» I think women have different ways of having an orgasm. She can have it thanks to the clitoris, the G-spot, the vagina, the breasts, the anus… It is my case besides, I am alone in the life and I live in Cannes, the psychic side is very important for me in order to trigger an orgasm. Location, physical condition and mood play an important role. Me, I used to enjoy thanks to my clitoris, my vagina and my anus but I learned to have orgasms thanks to a simple stimulation of the chest, thanks to a slap on the buttocks, or thanks to the pronunciation of raw words. «
You will notice that Véronique finds it easy to enjoy everything. The clitoral orgasm for her is the most intense but the vaginal orgasm allows total inner satisfaction.
Véronique had her first orgasm while watching a pornographic film when she was still a teenager. For her her first reaction was surprise, it was a very pleasant feeling. At present, she needs to be stimulated with a professional tongue at the level of the clitoris because she has become sensitive to lingual pleasure, much more than if she were stimulated by the fingers or a vibrator.
In terms of positions during the act, it is in the doggy style position that she has a strong vaginal orgasm. Véronique is a real fountain woman and in just 20 minutes she is able to have more than 10 orgasms.
All these discoveries were made thanks to Manu, it is the man who allowed him to blossom and discover all the methods to enjoy.
Véronique often goes to libertine clubs for several years. For her, enjoying is a daily act. To learn how to make yourself come, you have to know your erogenous parts. And from there you can have indefinable pleasure.
Sometimes veronica is embarrassed to be a fountain woman, for example during her outings in libertine clubs, she is afraid of letting herself go during cunnilingus because of the reaction that her partner might have. She therefore often prefers to block herself so as not to shock.
Jasmine: a vaginal, clitoral and anal woman!
Women are full of resources and full of capacities to achieve their ultimate pleasure.
Jasmine, 35, is a pornographic actress. She landed in the middle following a fantasy but also because sex and freedom are part of her daily life. The first time she came it was with a woman.
» The first time I was ashamed because my first orgasm was accompanied by my first ejaculation. I even immediately thought that I was urinating « .
It was in fact a first orgasm by clitoral stimulation. At the moment, Jasmine makes love with men but also with women. She remains much more attracted to women, she finds it easier to reach orgasm with a woman because each one knows the other’s body, and how it works. Making love with a woman is more subtle and more sensual than with a man.
Jasmine believes that you can enjoy any part of the body, even if the starting point is sex. Orgasm appeals to the imagination. Touching can trigger an orgasm just as much as penetrating a penis. We women can enjoy until we are tired.
Jasmine also enjoys when she performs sodomy, the orgasm through the anus will be different but stronger than the vaginal orgasm. Much of the anal orgasm is going to be purely physical. The affective or the emotional does not come into play, it is a bestial side here.
During anal orgasm there will be contractions in the rectum, a feeling of submission especially when we practice sodomy with a man. For Jasmine, in doggy style she has more facilities to enjoy « anally » with a man, while with a woman, she can enjoy in all positions and in several ways, a simple rubbing can lead to orgasm.
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