Oral sex is a real awakening of the senses where the state of sexual arousal is at its peak. Whether for the physical sensations it provides or for the intimacy that this exchange creates within the couple, it is an inexhaustible source of fulfillment and pleasure.
Oral sex is understood to mean stimulation of the genitals using the mouth, tongue and lips. The heat and humidity released by these oral caresses allow the desire to gradually increase.
More intimate than penetration, oral sex can be practiced during foreplay, to prepare the body for intercourse, or to directly lead his / her partner to orgasm. A whole part of the Kama Sutra is also devoted to the two main techniques that are fellatio and cunnilingus.
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Oral sex: fellatio
Oral (and manual) stimulation of the penis, and more particularly of the glans, which has many pleasure sensors is devoted to oral sex. The crown of the glans and the frenulum are also very sensitive. The testicles are not to be neglected, but this part of the anatomy being very sensitive, softness and delicacy are essential. Fellatio consists of mimicking a sexual intercourse of penetration by reproducing back and forth movements with the mouth. Better to vary the pleasures and the rhythm by alternating caresses, kisses and sucking so as not to be too “mechanical”. Softness and delicacy are therefore required because this part of the anatomy is hypersensitive.
Oral sex: cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is the excitement of the female sex through the lips and tongue. With its 8000 nerve endings (twice as many as for the penis!) The center of the female sexual universe is located at the level of the clitoris, an organ that has no other function than that of pleasure. The vulva and the entrance to the vagina should not be neglected because they are also very sensitive. Everything is possible in the art of cunnilingus: we kiss, we brush, we nibble, we lick. Here too, you can use your hands and insert a finger (or more?) Or a sextoy in her partner’s vagina.
Oral sex: rimming
As the name suggests, rimming is oral stimulation of the anus. Although still taboo, it is an erogenous zone that provides intense sensations because it is highly vascularized and innervated. The sensations of pressure and distension are particularly pleasant. However, anal sex requires taming and total abandonment in order to restore this area to its erotic potential. It therefore implies total and reciprocal trust between the two partners. For a successful rimming, it is necessary to lick the area around the anus by forming small circles with the tongue. You can also introduce the tongue into the orifice for even more pleasure.
Oral sex: the little extras
Before being sexual, think about being sensual. Indeed, oral sex is not everything, and to make your partner crazy / mad with pleasure, you must not neglect the other erogenous zones such as the neck, lower abdomen, thighs, nipples, pubis, testicles and buttocks.
Did you know that the skin is the most important sensory organ in terms of surface and weight? It represents 18% of the body’s volume on average. Thanks to its 640,000 sensory sensors, the skin is a bit like the outer covering of the brain which bridges the gap between body and mind. A fairly large playing field! For even more fun, blow hot and cold and play with the temperatures. To do this, use ice cubes for the cold and tea for the hot. Guaranteed effect!
Saliva is obviously the natural lubricant during oral sex because it is important to moisten the sex of his / her partner. But to vary the pleasures, nothing like a edible lubricant to bring a little novelty and a little playfulness.
Finally, think about the position of 69 for simultaneous oral caresses. Lie face down, one on your back, the other on top, or both on your side, mouth level with your partner’s penis. Kissing is obviously impossible in this position but the pleasure is shared.
Oral sex: usual precautions
Oral sex requires good personal hygiene before getting caught up in the game. If you haven’t had the time or are afraid of not being on top, don’t panic! Train your partner in the shower with you, it will only spice up the foreplay.
While oral caresses do not involve direct penetration and carry less risk, they nevertheless expose them to sexually transmitted infections such as AIDS, syphilis, herpes and hepatitis B. In addition, human papillomavirus, responsible for different types of cancer, are also transmitted through oral sex. So we think about protecting ourselves! For oral sex with a man, use a condom. Today there are many flavors for more variety and pleasure. For oral sex with a woman, a dental dam can be used, which acts as a barrier between the vulva and the mouth. If you don’t have this on hand, just open a condom and cut it up and down.
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