Sexuality

How to turn on his / her partner?

How to turn on your partner?

You have to know to start that if the person does not want, it is much more complicated … The person must want it a minimum at the risk of giving your all without receiving anything in return or at worst a rather cold argument , which must be admitted is not really terrible.

Note that it will be useless, in the majority of cases, to start cunnilingus on a lady who would rather want to sleep because she would have had a difficult day.

And although some people botch the foreplay stage, it is one of the essential things in a relationship between adults, you have to be desired. And for that different possibilities are available to us by simply starting to read this list and take note of it! *to smile*

  • Naughty and erotic massages.
  • Sensual and tender caresses.
  • A romantic atmosphere.
  • A striptease.

Here is the basis of indirectly sexual foreplay, otherwise you know of course directly sexual foreplay such as: Blow job, cunnilingus and erogenous caresses.

Why not start foreplay well in advance? For example by sending him a very ambiguous text or by inviting him to a restaurant and during this meal play your charms?

My favorite ways to turn my partner on

  • It happened to me to go to the restaurant with very daring underwear, having previously shown them by the biai of a live parade or by message on his mobile. It’s an effective way to start playing by making him understand: “Honey, tonight I want you!  »
  • Going to the bathroom while we were seated at the table and coming back like it was by handing him the thong under the table or slipping him discreetly into his pocket. (It’s one of my favorite things, especially when it goes away from me.)
  • Join him in the shower wearing a t-shirt with nothing underneath, playing with the transparency of the fabrics …
  • Give him a relaxing massage that turns to eroticism, passing over his penis in small « accidents ».
  • Let a glimpse of a garter holder …

Sexy ideas are plentiful and I think you can be imaginative!

Never forget that you should not force your partner, a « no » remains a « no » and if your partner does not want to, there is no point in trying like crazy. It won’t change anything.

The excitement must be mutual, Mister will more tend to be excited by a situation or a slightly naughty outfit while Madam will need deeper foreplay.

Why do women ask for foreplay?

They have no choice… A woman must be turned on to feel pleasure. It’s like that.

Basically, her vagina must moisten and become more elastic, otherwise there is a risk of pain … And you might as well tell you that this is not how you will make her addicted to sex and addicted to you.

An excited woman is more sensitive to stimuli: caresses, kisses on the skin … Her whole body becomes an erogenous zone but you have to be able to find what will please her best by being perfectly attentive to her moans, her eyes, her breathing … A woman will be more sensitive to the voice than a man, as well as to the words, the choice of your words is essential, that is why I think that the famous  » one night stand Is not terrible, the man cannot know the woman… Just like the woman cannot know the man.

Take your time and play according to your desires and fantasies

The key is communication and taking the time, after which you are free to play according to your common fantasies and desires.

I hope this short article will have enlightened you a little more on the matter.
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