The sm collar is a sign of belonging, the submissive belongs to her master, it is the essential accessory in the BDSM world. My sm necklace means a lot to me, I really care about it.
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Submissive slut wearing her little SM collar
At the beginning of my relationship with my master, he gave me as a birthday present a dog collar that he had picked up in a pet store directly so that I would become his little submissive, that I belong to him. A little submissive must drop these jewels in order to be able to wear the sm necklace offered by his master.
It was a black collar, made of leather, with studs, a pure and hard dog collar. There were no fake diamonds, glitter hearts or other frills. This necklace should not be very expensive in itself but it is not a question of price here, it is more about a deep feeling of belonging and it touched me so strongly that I had them. tears in my eyes when my master gave it to me. I remember this necklace as if it were yesterday, it was the gateway to the SM environment.
When I saw my master, I was showing off, pussy and ass in the air, getting on all fours and showing him my neck all the time, I was impatient all the time for him to put my necklace around my neck so that I am his submissive bitch. It is true that this sm necklace was simply a piece of leather but it represented the thread that binds me to my master, it was the visible side that lets people know that I belong to him. My heart, my soul, my pussy, my ass, everything belongs to him.
I admit, at that time, I did not yet wear the collar outside just when I shared moments of intimacy with my master. I was still young and I was not aware of the importance that this piece of leather around my neck was going to take. When I took it off to sleep, I missed it a lot and I couldn’t wait to wake up to see my master so that I could put it back on. I almost wanted to get up in the middle of the night so that I could wrap it around my neck and contemplate myself for hours in front of the mirror. In order to feel the leather on my skin, feel as if my master’s hands were there, squeezing my neck, showing me his strength.
When you go for a walk, if you see a dog on the loose, without a collar around its neck, you will think that it is lost, does not belong to anyone, and well it is the same for me. Many masters in the BDSM world offer SM collar to their submissives to symbolize their beginnings of relationships. A lot of people don’t give enough importance to the deep symbol that emanates from the necklace, the link it symbolizes between master and submissive. These people see the necklace as a simple piece of jewelry, which you must have at all costs to belong to the bdsm world.
Most shocking to me are the people who buy their SM collar and remove any personal touches, allowing it to be gifted to another submissive if the relationship ends. It’s just absurd, there is no more sentimental or other value.
Bad submissive slut collar
At the time I could also see behind the scenes, concerning the SM necklaces. There was a time when I was forced to wear an SM necklace with a former master, I told you about him in one of my previous texts (the famous bad people to hang out with), this necklace was totally impersonal, just the cutting edge of fashion with no carnal feelings emanating from it.
I didn’t want to wear her damn SM necklace at all but I had to, anyway I wanted to avoid problems and retaliation, but this necklace didn’t stick to my skin at all, not to stick to my skin at all. my personality was a gift that I would have done well without.
Contrary to the desired effect, I found myself completely locked up with this necklace, like a thief who had been punished. I just had a deep sense of shame and didn’t take responsibility for wearing it at all. I am submissive by nature so I obeyed without saying anything at the time, but this sm collar really didn’t make sense.
I had managed to ignore this necklace, even though I was living it badly, I was happy to wear my first SM necklace and at the same time very uncomfortable wearing this one in particular. I was greatly relieved when I was able to end this very bad relationship, happy that I no longer had to wear that damn cheesy necklace of someone who was starting to disgust me.
This person taught me only one thing thanks to his behavior, that wearing the sm collar without feelings and real bond is useless. This man could have offered me a necklace in solid gold it would have been exactly the same thing, except that I could have made money on the resale.
In conclusion, the purchase of an SM necklace should be considered, not be done on a whim, offering this necklace too quickly is bad. The hasty purchase of a master-made SM collar for his submissive proves that he just wants to immediately mark his territory even before he actually gets to know his submissive. Submissive bitches who quickly accept the SM collar often seek to change accessories later.
The SM fashion effect
During the reunion with my master, the necklace of the time had disappeared. My master had decided to change the sm collar and therefore bought me the one I have at the moment. I have the collar with the inscription « SLAVE » in leather and metal details. I wanted something simple without rhinestones and preferably black.
Because it was offered by my master, it is the most beautiful jewelry that I have been offered. I wanted my necklace to still have a bit of a canine touch because often most necklaces have been too stylized and the shapes have changed that don’t really look like much anymore. I am no longer ashamed to wear this sm necklace since I am with my master, it is rather easy to associate. I fully assume the wearing of the necklace since the beginning of our relationship thanks to the trust that we have established.
No more debates, SM necklaces are not small collector’s items that we change whenever we want, except if our name is Christian Gray: D. Exit the submissive bitches who fight to know who has the most beautiful sm collar. In my eyes this is totally ridiculous, it is better to advocate your values as a submissive rather than boast of being at the forefront of fashion.
Being able to assume your SM collar and get some excitement from it
Times have changed, 5 years later, I still wear an SM necklace in the presence of my master. Whether you are at home or shopping, I have never been embarrassed by wearing the collar. I put it on and take it off on my own. We no longer do the staging in order to put the necklace on me we have exceeded this milestone for a long time now, it is now done naturally.
I do not wear the necklace at the office, I do not want to go to the front of the problems and questions that people would ask me about this necklace, it is for this reason that I have my vagina piercings which I use as accessories. of belonging more intimate.
I wear this sm necklace because it means a lot to me and I have a lot of respect for my master. It is the link that connects me to my master. When I was younger I thought that the necklace was used to mark the start and the end of a sexual act, I was a little naive since this is not the case at all. This necklace is simply there, because sometimes I want to show in public that I belong to my master and that I fully assume this situation.
I am proud to wear my SM necklace around my neck, if you are not part of the SM milieu it will be difficult for you to understand this point of view. I enjoy when I’m outside, to fix people in the eye without looking down to challenge them. When men look at me and see my sm collar directly they can’t help but stare at me for long minutes until their wives turn around in anger at their behavior and begin to hate me deeply, accepting the fact that I am submissive because they themselves have never succeeded or even wanted to be.
Basically they are surely frustrated couples too proud to recognize it. This SM necklace allowed me to fill myself when I felt an absence, or a lack, when my master could not be by my side, it allowed me to have a semblance of him when he was not the.
I wear my necklace in a rather poignant way, I like to feel subtly suffocated by my piece of leather. It is really the right size, my master made a very good choice that day. I almost feel suffocated as if my master is tightening his hands around my neck.
In the mind of my master, the most important thing is my belonging to him and this belonging is found deep in my soul, not in a leather SM collar or other SM object for that matter. Basically I prefer to wear my SM necklace rather than wearing an engagement ring like most ordinary couples do to mark their relationships or their commitments. We don’t care whether the sm necklace is pink, black, with or without rhinestones, leather or metal, what is important is what it represents for you, and in your eyes the necklace you wear will be the most beautiful.
My little one leaves sm to be a perfect submissive bitch
Since the beginning of our relationship, my master has often taken me out by tying me by my collar with a dog leash, during our evenings sm I move on all fours, buttocks in the air. He likes to tie me to the legs of a table or a chair, and leave me there for a few moments to see how the people at the party behave with me.
At his place, I walk on all fours without saying a word, fulfilling all his desires, sometimes I show my pussy by spreading my legs, sometimes I arch my butt to show my little ass. My role is to submit in order to meet the slightest wishes of my master while being happy to do so, I satisfy my master. I am very proud, I feel desirable and beautiful with this leave sm. I behave like a small poodle faithful to his master, loyal, docile, available. I like to show off my ass, so he can caress my submissive rump. I am his, he trains me, he uses me like a toy, I am his, my sm collar gives him all the rights.
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