In the BDSM world, we often use accessories to lightly burn our partner on the surface of the skin in order to develop the pleasure of pain in him / her. Unfortunately the choice of these accessories is very limited, I was able to test the burns with wax of sm candles.
candle wax dripping on my rump
Wax is used a lot by people who enjoy SM practices. Candles were made especially for this use, they burn faster than lambda candles and at a temperature largely bearable by the human body. I would like to give you some advice in order to make your choice of candles.
Here are some explanations of the different types of candles.
The massage candles are particularly gentle and are more suitable for massage, as the name suggests, than for SM games. The heat is barely noticeable and they leave a very pleasant feeling on the skin.
If you enjoy the feeling of pain, I definitely recommend paraffin candles. The melting temperature is around 50 ° C which is more than enough to feel the pain. Just the right amount neither too soft nor too strong.
Candles to avoid are those made from stearin which require a higher temperature to melt (e.g. tealight candles), beeswax candles which are naturally sweet, have a high melting point and can contain sugar. causes serious burns.
Regarding candles with colors or different scents (decorative candles or atmosphere) I absolutely do not recommend them because you would risk having an allergy to the components or having serious burns on the skin because of their waxes which do not cool quickly enough compared to paraffin candles. We must therefore forget the purchase of candles with colors, scents or being used to repel insects, mask the strong smell of any tobacco, they are absolutely not made for SM practices.
To avoid any problem, you must therefore buy candles specially designed for SM practices, you can also opt for paraffin candles, these are the candles that remain the most suitable for SM beginners. Regarding the burn caused, it is very important but spontaneous, it does not last.
Usually my Master starts by pouring hot wax on my back and stomach. It then continues on the buttocks or breasts. The most sensitive part of my body being the strongly ribbed fingers, the burning sensation is intense and not necessarily pleasant. Note that as with a tattoo, the thinner your skin will be, the more pain you will feel.
My master has always been able to find the right words so that I do not apprehend the act, nor the pain in advance, to be able to put myself in good conditions in order to take as much pleasure as possible. I love this practice, it gives me a lot of pleasure and I control the pain very well because it is spontaneous, you just have to concentrate and have fun at the same time.
Of course, there are always people to experiment with anything and everything even leaving indelible scars for life on their skin (example: burns from cigarettes). Candles are one of the greatest fantasies among people who practice BDSM acts. This act is doable, if the time is taken to do things correctly, do not start with areas where the skin is thin, use the right suitable candles, controlling your breathing and not panicking, especially communicating with your partner c ‘is important.
After you have finished your experiment, gently remove the candle from the affected areas and try not to put it everywhere: D, the household maniacs will have a job!
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