The secret of tantric sex lies in a number of techniques that prolong sexual ecstasy and improve levels of satisfaction. You want to try? Here are some basic principles.
- Tantra: Maintain eye contact with your partner
Don’t be embarrassed! Another look at yourself while you are in bed can lead to some of the most intense sexual experiences. One of the fastest ways to increase your sexual pleasure is to look into your partner’s eyes, trying to decipher how you are feeling and capture all the details that make him / her special.
You are likely to laugh at first, but gradually you will get used to it, until you feel like a fish in water in this new and satisfying experience. You can include this exchange of looks in your foreplay, but most importantly, we recommend that you do it around the time you reach orgasm. In addition to being sensual, it will be magical!
- Tantra: Feel every pore on your skin
One of the most important points of tantra is to explore the sensuality of your partner through caresses. Tantric sex focuses on how the other person feels, which can be the key to achieving orgasm. So you have to be totally focused on what you are doing and not think about anything except the here and now.
To practice tantric sex, focus on what you want to know about your partner and how you are going to get there. Therefore, you need to be aware of your erogenous zones, but more importantly you need to be clear about your intention. Connect to each other.
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3. Tantra: Be aware of your feelings and sensations
Tantrism not only improves the physical part of your relationships but it is above all an invitation to an emotional and sensory experience. You have to taste, touch, see, smell and hear.
It is very important that you and your partner explore and create feelings in each other’s body in a natural way, paying attention to how your senses respond. Create an intimate and relaxed atmosphere and take your sexual experience to another level. For example, you can blindfold yourself and open up to possibilities to stimulate the rest of your senses.
You can also play with body oils and perfumes (remember that cinnamon and vanilla are aphrodisiacs), put on some background music or play with a little food (chocolate, cream, strawberries …) to spice up the wine. ‘experience. Edible paint, massage candle, incense, there is no shortage of ideas!
4. Tantra: Experience an orgasm with your whole body
Orgasm with your whole body? It may sound strange to you, but there is a way to do it. To achieve this type of orgasm, you need to build an erotic energy that you hold close to orgasm before then gradually letting it go.
It is therefore about playing with your body by bringing you closer to the energy of orgasm. Use your breath and the power of your impulses to propagate all the energy in your body. You can play with this tension for as long as you want, and even challenge yourself. When you finally reach orgasm, you will feel strong and pleasant contractions in different parts of your body. For even more powerful orgasms, it is important, beforehand, to strengthen your perineum using a gaicha ball for example.
5. Tantra: And… Have a nice trip!
Tantric sex is a way to achieve orgasm in the best possible way. In fact, the whole process forces you to focus on the path and stop thinking about the destination, to achieve a higher level of satisfaction. Sometimes we put too much emphasis on the end result which is orgasm, and we often overlook the pleasure we have in achieving it.
If you constantly pursue the goal of orgasm, you will certainly end up bored of doing the same things. Leave the orgasm aside for a bit and think about what other aspects of sex can do for you. The key to doing this is remembering why you enjoy having sex and what you want from it. Experiment with new things, everything else will come naturally!
